Come on SUN. Come on out and melt winter blues away. To the left is the baby truck we take out into the world to make us the money we are hoping to make to get the truck that I really want.
This is the truck I really want. Still dreaming. No new trucking news so, here is an article from my portfolio. Hope you enjoy. Thanks for the support.
Sex, Love and the 40’S
Alright boys and girls, here comes the 40th Birthday. Now hold on to your shorts, and I mean literally. A lot of people think "No big deal. I can handle this. I don't feel 40 or look 40 so why should I be 40? Right?" We think to ourselves. "Don't make it a big deal. There are more important things in my life to deal with; I am not going to get all caught up with my age!"
Then there comes the big life jolting changes. The kids Move Out. They can no longer be the center of your attention. Their lives do not revolve around you.
Then someone say's: Do you know how old that perfect twenty-something looking person is? They are 40! Then we really start looking at ourselves in the mirror and we become almost desperate to gain back that youthful glow. To be seen as sexy and hot.
Men start to experience more intense emotions. Whoah! What was that? Oh, yeah, and they become sensitive and way, way, way beyond the normal when it comes to sexual desires that start roaming around in their heads. They are 40 yr. old victims of the comeback of the 18 yr. old hormones stuck inside a much older body And, it's not “as” easy to gain relief at this age.(laugh).
The feeling of being young and single again is overwhelming, even when married, as a couple, you have the euphoria of being single again.
There have been experiences of desires that tend to be wild and crazy; incredible temptations and desires to do crazy fun wild things. Some things, that at any other time in life, most of us would never even consider. Most of the hold up or second thoughts are due to how much control we allow society to have over what you believe to be right and wrong. The thought of applying logic and reason to gain emotional stability and a person’s thoughts toward their moral virtue versus their social reputation that they allow others to see. In other words, who a person is and who they portray themselves to be in society.
Some experience intense insecurities.
Feelings of rejection seem to jump out from everywhere. Some of us would feel so, much better if someone would just say that you really are sexy!
Experiencing fantasies with each other? Better? Worse?
Turning against each other to fulfill those fantasies alone because of thoughts that the other won't understand? That is what separates us from each other. Help each other live out those fantasies. Be a part of the fantasies. That is how we grow closer together. There is nothing I can't do without my man. It's all part of the sexual experience of life. Tell your lover all your secret desires even if those desires don't involve them. You never know what kind of response could come. Being honest? Cheating? Affairs? Why?
Love. Sex. Making Love. Is there a difference. To me there is a difference. Love, you share with your partner in life. When it comes to sex? At least we always involve each other.
Guy's, has another guy ever turned you on and it freaked you out?
Girls, has a woman ever turned you on? Acted on it? Why?
Need for self assurance? Is there maybe a desperate need to be the center of attention for once?
There will be a new and improved you once we get past the issues of sharing yourself completely with another person. The partner you share your life is your best friend, your confident, your lover and the person you do all those wild and crazy things with that you could never do with anyone else. That is love, to me.
Well, back to the grindstone of trying to support my partner in his financial endeavors and his trucking business. Wish him well as he chooses to set off without me so that I can continue on with school so that when someone does see my work then they will also see that I have credentials.
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